FATHER AND DAUGHTER DANCE SONG SUGGESTIONS

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Father-Daughter Dance Tips for Brides

Not everyone is a professional dancer, which is why I stick to being behind the decks instead of on the dance floor

. My best advice is to keep it simple and focus on enjoying the moment together.

Stick to the basics

• Keep it simple – Focus on natural movement rather than memorizing complicated choreography.

• Enjoy the moment together – The emotional connection is more important than technical perfection.

• Move at a comfortable pace – Choose a tempo that feels easy and relaxed for both of you.

• Practice lightly – A few rehearsals are enough; the goal is confidence, not perfection.

• You don’t need to memorize every step, focus on dancing organically together.

• Consider practicing at home in your wedding shoes to feel comfortable.

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Or don’t stick to the basics

Not every bride wants a slow, traditional song for the father-daughter dance. More and more couples are choosing fun medleys that start with a classic ballad and then surprise guests with an upbeat twist. These mixes make the dance light-hearted, entertaining, and unforgettable, and they always get the crowd cheering.

A custom mix could include:

• Starting with a slow, emotional song (for the heartfelt moment)
• Transitioning into an upbeat track or two for a fun surprise
• A final return to something meaningful to end on a high note

Here are some examples of the type of medleys couples have chosen in the past

(Note: these are YouTube examples, not weddings I personally played at):

Cost: Custom mixes are available from about R750, depending on the complexity and number of songs you’d like included.

With the right mix, your father-daughter dance can move from a tender moment to an all-out celebration, showing off your personality and making sure your guests remember it for years to come.

Choreography

For couples in the Durban area, Kim Pienaar comes highly recommended to help you create a first dance you’ll remember.